the first time i watched eternal sunshine, i was an angsty, impulsive 16-year-old experiencing her first break-up with someone who - naively, at the time - she thought she could spend the rest of her life with. i was overly emotional and excessively idealistic, but you’re supposed to be when you’re 16; ”reality” isn’t a rule that applies to you.
and yet, to fill the absence of that once all-consuming love, i had to replace it with an equally strong…